What is THE answer?
What do you do when 7 people have 3 hours of free time? You can’t play badminton – you’d need a lot of money to book courts for 3 hours! So, you have no money. What else do you do?
Hmm…. You go to RedBox – where you get to sing your hearts out for only Rm8 for 3 full hours!! And that includes food too. Yes, not fantastic food, but at least it keeps your stomach half full. And well, you don’t get to spend rm8 singing your favourite songs at the top of your voice with your buddies for 3 hours!! So, it’s a good enough deal!! And I don’t often say this but RedBox today was a fun time though I was rather apprehensive in the beginning when I heard that it wasn’t just going to be the 4 of us. (don’t get me wrong, it’s not that I dislike the company but I’m still shy mar….)…nonetheless, it was a fabulous time today!! After singing and shouting at the top of our voices for 3 hours, we finally had to vacate the room and we all had sore-throats anyway, so we decided to head on to Cineleisure. So, Jon, Rudi, Kat and Chuen decided to watch Superman Returns! I’ve watched it and I’m only interested to watch it again with my siblings. So, myself, Shel and Liyee went on our ways doing what girls do best – shopping!!! So, we walked over to
– the biggest in
It’s really funny spending time with liyee and Shelb – together with wengyan. We can say and do the dumbest thing and then the next moment, come up with something serious and then go back again to doing the dumbest thing. I think it’s so cool! Haha…
So what was the serious topic today?
Shh…but it started with us talking about Chuen and Kat (and yes Jon, I still have that soft spot for Chuen!)….
Anyhow, our topic was: Is chemistry more important than Ideals?
Let me elaborate. What if you like a person whom you have quite a good chemistry with? Meaning, you enjoy each other’s company, you like the way each of you handle each other’s emotions, you enjoy certain hobbies with that person, you admire a few things about that person and you really like being with that person. But, s/he isn’t really the kind of person you imagine your partner to be like. I’m not talking about the good looks, the money, the whatever-amount-of-Cs- s/he needs to have. I’m talking about ideals that has been in your mind ever since, forever, and these are not very demanding ideals, not the kenot find kind. What about ideals such as: he must be leader-of-the-family quality ; he must be spiritually stronger and such. What about those ideals?? Are those ideals wrong in the first place? And what if those ideals are so deeply rooted in you that you might find it difficult to “compromise”?
So, give up the Ideals or the Chemistry??
posted by -- J e e L e e -- @ 11:02 pm
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hey jee lee!!
nice meetin up with u all again.. too bad couldnt hang out properly. darn. maybe we need another food trip to ipoh eh?
so agree with on most of what u said. kinda feel better that i wasnt the only one abit hesitant about the meeting with u and liyee. one, heard abt liyee bt nv met her so its weird? and second, theres so much time that has passed since we last met that not sure if.. ya, things would go smooth or not. i had fun singing with you guys tho!:) wish u guys stayed on for the movie and etc etc (not that there WAS etc etc) so more opportunity to yak perhaps? sigh.
anyways... gosh this is a long comment, BEAR WITH ME!
i so agree with ur chemistry vs ideals. was jst thinking abt it actually, and reading ur post was like.. WOW! ANOTHER PERSON THINKS THE EXACT SAME THING!! wish i was there at this conversation, but would have been weird? since u 3 so close since forever and me.. uh... not that closE? but still wish i could hear the outcome of such interesting discussion cos i think of that too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
okok.. too long a post. sorry ya!! :) t care.. when u balikking s'pore??
hey Kat!!
You found me! haha...I didn't know you read me bloggie. :p
But yeah, we should have spent more time together. Maybe we girls should have gone shopping and yak-ed a bit more and the guys can go and do a more guy thing rite? Haha... Ya, you were a bit quiet when we were at Red-box. I guess, need some time to warm up a bit too eh? hehe...Well, it's always great to meet up with ol' friends, if i may say so. :)
And wow, you were thinking about the chemistry vs.ideals too?? haha...But you know, to have you around during that conversation would be fun - esp if you have that same thoughts in mind. You know, it's important to have flexible cliques. Everyone has cliques - it's a matter of fact!! But to have cliques that are flexible in being able to receive others into the clique - even for a short moment (or not)- is important. My point is that, it would have been nice having u in the conversation. Except that, the conversation started with us talking about u and chuen. So, if u were there, the conversation might not have started with u and chuen as our "model" haha....
and, I've not come to a conclusion about the chemistry vs ideals thingy. hehe...:(
Okay...since u posted a long one, i reciprocate! haha...:)
You take care too...
Balikking monday, 17th July. :(
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